Main Street Newark Delaware Circa 1960.

In the wee small hours I woke up mentally wandering down Main Street, Newark Delaware.

I walked down the left side. No, I don’t know North from South. I’m a left and right girl. First I passed University of Delaware’s Old College. Next to it is Recitation Hall. I had most of my college art studio classes there.



The building smelled of oil paint, turpentine, and creativity. My freshman year, while taking Drawing 101 the professor got so exasperated with one student’s artwork he tossed it out a second-floor window.  Professors worked hard to weed out the art students who thought being an art major would be an easy ride.

My junior year we were tasked with doing experiential art. The U of D drum major, Robbie, was a brilliant art student. He made the whole class put on white marching band fingerless gloves and he blindfolded us. He led us to the long sidewalk in front of Old College and had us sit in a circle on the public walkway. We sat and sat and sat. Finally, after what felt an eternity, I lifted the mask. Robbie was gone. We were surrounded by laughing spectators.  I learned most of the other’s had lifted their blindfold’s long before I did.

After Old College and Recitation Hall I walked to Rhodes Drug Store. I recall years of sitting at the counter on a spinning stool and having a cream cheese sandwiches.

To the right of the pharmacy, you can see the “W” of Wynn’s Gift Shop sign.

After Rhodes was Wynn’s Gift Shop. My best memory of Wynn’s is buying an itty bitty flower vase as a Mother’s Day gift. It was crackled Blenko brand glass, aqua blue, about four inches tall. On each side were pressed two blobs of glass with thumbprint indentations in their centers. I loved that bottle. After Mom died, I brought it home. Sadly the container broke a few years ago when I was vigorously mopping up the kitchen counters.

Moving on I passed Peggy Cronin’s Fashions. Walking into Peggy Cronin’s was dropping into a time warp. Did she ever dump old inventory? I doubt it. Her shop was narrow. The racks were so tightly packed I could barely push hangers from left to right. Dresses were dusty and faded. Hats were decades out of style. I think her store had a front and back room. What a jumbled mess.

I didn’t know until finding this advertisement that she had a second location in Elkton.


Next door was the anti-Cronin, Vera’s Clothing Store. Tidy, spotless, expensive. When trying on clothes, you had to put a sheer white hood over your face to protect garments from makeup. In high school, I bought a shamrock motif bra and panties there. AA bra. I was flat as a board.

Vera was French, short, blond, and bossy.  I don’t think she much liked having High School girls in her shop.  She catered to those with far deeper pockets.
Several times a year she made buying trips to Paris. Her store stock was current and fashionable. Her husband often worked the store as well.  He was no taller than Vera and had a thick French accent.

The next place along the walk was National Five and Ten dime store.  They carried everything from housewares to clothing to school supplies. I worked there in college.  My first job was painting price signs for the display window. Red tempera paint on white shelf paper. Huge letters. Fifty cents a sign.


I thought they weren’t discreet or classy enough. I argued my point with the manager, but without luck.  After all, how classy is a dime store expected to be?

Upon entering, on the left in the front of the store was a lunch counter. For a while, I served there. During the week an older woman cooked all the food, and I slapped together sandwiches or scooped up chili.

On weekends I was required to prepare some dishes.
I once made egg salad and, as mother did, put pickle relish in it. Customers complained.

We had several regulars.  The ones I remember most clearly are a middle-aged brother and sister. They rode their thick wheeled bikes along Main Street and only ordered tea and buttered toast. Both were tiny, with thin hair and vacant looks.

Once the owner, Mr. H, asked me to make him a vanilla milkshake. I did, but he got angry because I put ice cream in it. He had endured a heart attack. Careful eating was necessary. It seems the milkshake was to be skim milk and ice. Who knew?

One of the managers liked ice cubes in his hot coffee. One day he sat at the counter watching the cubes melt in his cup, and told me he’d recently encouraged his tiny daughter to climb a ladder, promising he’d catch her when she jumped. She clambered up, leaped, and–with his arms folded across his chest–he watched her land hard. As she was crying, he stated, “That was to teach you never to trust anyone.” I was horrified.

I also took a spin working the cash register. At first, I was hopeless at counting back change. The other manager patiently taught me how to do it, stating the amount owed, “Two dollars and eleven cents” and the amount paid, “out of ten dollars.” And then counting out pennies first followed by nickles, dimes, quarters and dollars. I wasn’t to put the ten into the register until completed counting back the change. Otherwise, the customer could claim to have handed me a twenty.

When someone offered a credit card, I looked the number up in a small booklet to be sure it wasn’t a bad card. Then put the embossed plastic unit into a swiping machine that made carbon copies. I put purchases into paper bags.  At the end of the day, I had to count out my drawer and reconcile what I’d started with a compared to what I ended with.  That task made me nervous, given my poor ability at making change.

The National Five and Ten is still in business. I think now they mostly carry University of Delaware T-Shirts, hats and jackets.

Next to National is the Newsstand. I’ll finish memories of walking along Main Street another day. It’s a long way all the way to Newark Shopping Center. Then I have to trek back on the other side of the street.  I hope you’ll walk along with me.

Taking these journey’s back to the town and experiences of my youth is fun.

Somewhat related blog posts:

Rittenhouse Park, Silverbook, Newark Delaware.

My Lifelong Love Affair with Philadelphia Cream Cheese

Remembering Richard’s Dairy, Newark, Delaware.

Exit on Main Street

Going to Church, Newark Delaware in the 50’s

Remembering Richard’s Dairy, Newark, Delaware.

One of my favorite childhood activities was going to Richard’s Dairy.

Some memories of Richards:

I was anemic as a child and needed routine iron shots. Mom would pick me up at West Park Elementary and take me to see Doctor Armstrong. After the visit, as an “oh poor little you” treat mom would take me for ice cream. Richard’s Dairy was on Elkton Road, quite near the doctor’s office. I hated the shots, but I loved chocolate ice cream. It would not have occurred to me to eat any other flavor. Nor would I have gotten anything but a flat bottom waffle cone. I ate it in the car while mom carted me back to school.

In junior high, our grandparents came to visit while mom and dad went to Quebec on vacation. Marilyn drove Grandpa and me to Richard’s in Fifi, our red three-speed Renault. He chose mint chocolate chip. He’d suffered a stroke. Holding and licking the melting cone made a sticky green mess all over his hands.

I wonder how Marilyn drove a three-speed while holding an ice cream cone?  She was forever dieting.  Probably she didn’t get one.


My high school boyfriend took me for an ice cream cone on a date. I was wearing my brand new white Villager pleated front dress. I ended up dripping chocolate all over the pleats and had to go home to change.

I was forever changing clothes. Mother spent one full day a week ironing our cotton shirts and blouses. She would set the ironing board up in the wide doorway between the family room and kitchen. Then she’d prop the front hall mirror on the sofa opposite, positioning it to reflect the television. It was the only time she ever watched daytime TV.


She sprinkled water on our shirts using a glass coke bottle with a sprinkler top stuck in the opening.


Marilyn and I loved ironing day. We’d come home from school to find our walk-in closets filled with clean, pressed blouses. I would immediately rip off whatever I’d worn that day, pull on a crisp shirt and head out with friends.

When Marilyn went to college Mother picked her laundry up weekly, washed it, and we went together to carry the ironed shirts up to her dorm room. Have I mentioned we were spoiled?

Richards delivered our milk to a galvanized metal box on the front porch. The milkman took out the empty bottles and replaced them with cold fresh ones sealed with cardboard discs. Sometimes mother got other stuff too. She’d leave a note in the box with her order. Whipping cream, cottage cheese, sour cream. But no cream cheese. I don’t know if they made it. Even so, I wouldn’t have eaten it. Only Philadelphia for me.



One day, when in elementary school, my friend Leslie and I were playing outside her College Park townhouse (I think they called them “row houses” then), racing up and down the neighbor’s stairs. We accidentally knocked over their milk delivery. There was shattered glass and spilled milk everywhere. I wonder why those people didn’t have a milk box?

When milk deliveries ended, Mom used that silver box to store potatoes in the garage.

Richard’s closed in the late 60’s. The property became High’s Dairy Store, followed by The Crab Trap Restaurant, The Trap and in around 2008 it was razed to make way for Amstel Square.  I am floundering for a “…and that’s good because.”

Tearing down that old building seems sad to me.


I chose these somewhat related posts because they contain memories of growing up in Newark, Delaware:

Learning to drive at thirteen was a good thing!

My Lifelong Love Affair with Philadelphia Cream Cheese

My no-good-very-bad High School boyfriend.

My Life of Crime

Rittenhouse Park, Silverbook, Newark Delaware.

Looking at​ the fabric of a lifetime. Coming up dry and perhaps with a lie.

Going to Church, Newark Delaware in the 50’s


Rittenhouse Park, Silverbook, Newark Delaware.

Yesterday I found myself on Google Earth revisiting Newark, Delaware. I typed in my childhood address, 18 Minquel Drive, Silverbrook, and there I was, floating over our old house.


We moved to Silverbrook when I was two, moved out, to Oaklands, at the beginning of seventh grade. That worked out great for me since most of my West Park Elementary School buddies were going to Central Junior High. But it stunk for my sister. She was beginning her Junior year of High School and was forced to leave her friends of a lifetime.

Mother professed the move was for school districts. However, I don’t buy it. Marilyn had done great at Christiana High. I wasn’t going to do great no matter where I went. I was a lazy student at best. The truth was Mom wanted a fancier home than the little Silverbrook split level.

18 Minquel Drive backed up to Rittenhouse Park. We could walk through our yard, slip into the neighbor’s yard and access the gate into the park. We spent entire days playing there. In this day and age, few mothers would feel safe allowing that.

Summer found us hopping from one moss slick stone to another, crisscrossing the Christina River. The dappled sunlight played on the water. Sometimes we were Indians. Others we were tiny people living on a giants head. The tall trees were his hair, fallen leaves his dandruff. No memory of what the creek was. Sweat, perhaps?

We found blacksnakes. We saw but didn’t pick, jack-in-the-pulpits. Lisa McClendon told me plucking those wasn’t legal. Who knows. Sometimes we waded in the shallows grabbing water beetles.


In the winter we put on our skates, and atop weak ankles, we slid around on ice until our feet were numb. We’d hear the ice crack and realize perhaps we shouldn’t go any closer to the warning sound.

No parent ever came looking for us. We were usually gone all day. No one wondered if we were floating face down in the middle of the river. We weren’t. It was a delicious time and place to be a kid.

The next door neighbor girl, Kathy, was Marilyn’s age. They set up a pulley system with parallel strings wrapping two nails in each of their bedroom windows. They would attach little notes and tug them back and forth over Kathy’s large side yard.

When I was about seven, our family took a cross-country trip to Disneyland. There we were able to ride in small motorized cars. Daddy adored cars. One Sunday afternoon at dinner (dinner was a big meal after church about one in the afternoon, later, about six, supper was something light.) while they were eating real food and I was eating cream cheese with a spoon, Daddy suddenly spoke up.

“Girls, I’ve been thinking of building something for you.” In a monotone, he asked, “Would you like a small playhouse in the backyard?” Then he continued, but his voice was suddenly enthusiastic, “Or a little car? A real car with a motor? You could drive it through the neighborhood! Visit friends! Zoom here and there!”

Naturally, given the zealous introduction, we picked the car. Daddy built it out of wood. A two-seater. The upholstery was a vinyl tablecloth tacked over foam. It had a lawnmower engine. The steering wheel was a baby buggy tire. We pulled a cord to start the motor and pressed a lever to a spark plug to stop it.  I think he painted it the same color blue as my bedroom.  It topped out at about three miles an hour.

We named it The Little Car.

The Little Car was the envy of all the other kids. At first, we drove in the streets until neighbors complained. After that, it was sidewalks only.
Daddy put a hook on the back so we could attach a wagon and give friends rides.

The only spanking I ever got was when I stubbornly refused to let anyone ride in the wagon. My Little Car. My wagon. Get lost. Daddy was furious. My butt was still red at bathtime. When mom saw it, she got quite angry with him. (Curious, she oversaw my baths as if I might drown, but she let us run amok by a river all day, no worries.)

Yesterday I “drove” all around Silverbrook via Google Earth. Rode down Minquel, took a right on Lenape Lane. Paused to look at friends’ homes. The Hiltons, Catalina’s, Winky somebody’s, Patnovic’s. At the end of Lenape, I turned left and drove out of the ‘hood over to Art Lane and the Tew’s house. I spent a lot of time at the Tews. They had a laundry shoot we could crawl through going from first to the second floor.

Then I turned around and headed back to 18 Minquel Drive. It was a fantastic trip down memory lane.

Mother and Daddy kept The Little Car. When Matthew came along I took him riding all around Oaklands, the neighborhood we had moved to in seventh grade. By then The Little Car was red. Daddy installed a seat belt–one of his old leather belts. If we were gone too long, Daddy would climb into the car and search to make sure we hadn’t broken down.

Later, when we had Mo, the kids would take turns having car rides. By that point, Matt drove with me as the passenger. Mother still had the car after Daddy died. We were living in Chicago. One year she called to ask if she could give it to a friend for their grandkids. My first reaction was, “No way. My Little Car!” (yes, greedy Alice probably deserved another spanking.)

Then I relented. It was just sitting there, unused, front and center in their garage. The Little Car was meant to give magic to kids.

I wonder if she still exists?

I wonder if kids are ever allowed to play freely in Rittenhouse Park these days? I’m so glad I was.

Somewhat related Blog Posts:

Destination Disneyland!

Growing up in a college town was good because…

Going to Church

My Lifelong Love Affair with Philadelphia Cream Cheese

Grove Point Girl Scout Camp and an enema



Exit on Main Street

After college, in the mid-seventies, I taught Elementary school art three days a week. The other two days I worked at a little store named Exit on Main Street. I’ve made reference to the shop in this post- Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance.  Located on Main Street, Newark Delaware, the store derived its name from the Rolling Stones Album Exile on Main Street.

In earlier years the house was occupied by a college friends great grandmother.  Later it became a Main Street institution store named The Card Shop. All my greeting card purchases were made there. When The Card Shop closed friends Walt and Jeannie rented the space to open their store.

It was a narrow antiquated two-story home.  Timeworn wooden floors, door knobs of antique faceted glass, ceilings high with deep crown molding. The front two rooms, formerly living and dining room, housed the shop.  An ancient kitchen was the in back, the sink generally overflowing with dirty dishes.  Walt and Jeannie lived above the store. A staircase in the kitchen led to three tiny bedrooms and a wee ancient bathroom.

Walt’s nickname was Peanuts.  He and Jeannie had been a couple since she was in High School.  He was several years her senior.  Both were very amiable, really mellow, and generally quite stoned.

I remember getting a glass of water from the kitchen sink when Walt casually invited me to “fall into an affair.” Rather than being offended or considering it sexual harassment, I chalked it up to his being high. It was the early 70’s.  If anyone was talking about inappropriate work place behavior I sure hadn’t heard it.

Exit on Main Street sold a mash up of house plants, macrame plant holders, large baskets, copper pots banged out in India. The shop was perfumed by incense, which we marketed along with incense burners. It was truly quintessential 1970s in its decor and product line. I learned the names, care and feeding of so many types of flora.  I became informed about mealy bug, spider mites, and how easily a cactus flops and dies when over watered.


My job involved watering plants, misting those that required it, picking off dead leaves, helping customers most of whom were college age.  Also hippies, also often stoned.

No credit cards changed hands.  Odd to remember a time when people paid in cash.  The cash register was a big brass antique that chimed loudly when you hit the Sale button.  I’d worked a cash register at National 5 and 10 when I was in college.  I had been hopeless at making change.  I clearly remember the dimestore manager teaching me to count back,  one penny/nickel/dime/quarter at a time.  Happily by the time I landed at Exit on Main Street I had change making skill set down.


Each sale was written down on a small green paged pad with carbon paper underneath the top sheet, creating a duplicate for the shopper.  The originals were slid onto a spike and added up at the end of the day.  I’m sure their numbers were better on days when the owners worked the shop.

People Magazine had just begun being published.  During the quiet times I’d browse People, catching up on all the celebrities. I recently subscribed to People again.  I can whip through my weekly magazine in about a minute and a half.  I have no idea who most of today’s nubile stars are.  I won’t renew because getting People delivered to the door has totally ruined standing in grocery store check out lines and waiting in Doctor’s offices.

I can clearly recall buying the first issue at Newark Newstand, then crossing the road to work.

For lunch I would wander a few doors down, get a wax paper wrapped bagel with cream cheese and sprouts, dropped into a small brown paper bag. Does anyone eat sprouts these days?  In the seventies they were ubiquitous.

I wore bell bottom jeans, clogs or earth shoes, a peace sign necklace and mood rings. I wasn’t really a hippy, but on Tuesdays and Fridays I attempted to look like one.


Walt and Jeannie were forced to move shop when the owners of that splendid vintage building made a deal with a fast food chain, sold it and it was torn down.  Many of Newark’s original buildings went the way of the wrecking ball.  But some remain.  National Five and Ten is a fixture.  It’s mostly about University of Delaware T-shirts and memorabilia these days.  When I worked there during college it was a strange smelling low-end Department Store.  Flash bulb moment! I suddenly recalled an incident while working at National Five and Ten that would definitely be termed sexual harrasment today.  More on National Five and Ten in a future post.

Since writing this I got an email from college buddy Eleanor.  She included a photo of a toothbrush holder bought at Exit on Main Street.  She maintains she just can’t let it go. Thanks Eleanor!

Going to Church, Newark Delaware in the 50’s

My family attended Newark United Methodist Church every Sunday except the monthly communion Sunday.  Mom and Dad said the communion service was too long.  Personally, I liked the grape juice served in itty bitty plastic cups.   But that is all I liked about church.


When I was very small Sunday school was kind of fun.  I remember playing  “The Farmer in the Dell” in the church parking lot. Debbie Fieldhouse was in my class.  She taught me how to tie a bow with my hat-string.  The hat-string was a continuous loop, not two individual strings.  It was a blue winter hat with white fake fur trim.

On the Sunday school room wall was a picture of Jesus.  I now think of that guy as “surfer boy Jesus.” He was strawberry blond with blue eyes.

Can’t you picture him, riding in a Woodie, surfboard on the roof?

As I got older Sunday school began to bore me.  The church sanctuary was on the second floor.  Daddy would hand me change for the donation basket, then he and mother would head upstairs. There was a brass letter slot on the wall into which people could drop their contribution checks or envelopes. I would slip a nickel or dime through the slot, sneak out the front door and take myself down the block to Rhodes Drug Store.


Once at Rhodes, I’d climb up onto a spinning soda fountain stool.  Using the rest of the money intended as church donation I’d buy a cream cheese sandwich on white bread.  The sandwiches always came with a pickle slice on top.  I never ate those.

The waitress was a very short black woman with the most bowed legs I’ve ever seen.  Mother said it was from rickets.  Keeping an eye on the clock I’d happily work my way through the sandwich and be back in the church lobby by the time my parents came down from the sanctuary.

Following the service, in the vestibule, Daddy handed my sister Marilyn and me our weekly allowance. My family would then cross Main Street to the Newark News shop.  We called it “Newark News Stand” but I see in the photo below that wasn’t the name.  The News Stand was a very narrow store.  Some of the magazines were wrapped in brown paper.  I didn’t know why.  They also sold cigarettes, tobacco, and other smoking stuff.  Everyone smoked then.  My parents smoked Kent cigarettes.  Later they moved on to Tareyton.  I started smoking at sixteen when I swiped Tareytons from their packages.


Marilyn and I spent our allowance money on comic books.  My favorites were Little Lulu, Betty and Veronica, and Casper.  Marilyn usually chose Mad Magazine.  Mother’s friends disapproved of comic books, but Mom reasoned that it got us to read–which was a good thing.  Both my sister and I continue to be avid readers.

And my sister continues to be an avid church goer.  Me, not so much.  I’m more likely to spend Sunday morning perched on a Starbucks stool.

My parents never knew I skipped church on a weekly basis.  It wasn’t until a few years before mom’s death that I told her.  She was suitably horrified.

Growing up in a college town was good because…

Delaware stadium

I grew up in Newark, Delaware, home of the University of Delaware and the Fighting Blue Hens.  As a kid I took hearing the marching band on autumn Saturdays completely for granted.  Now, looking back, I realize what a gift it was to live close to the Delaware stadium.

In junior high school I had a close friend, Ruthie, who lived a stones throw from a boy’s  dormitory.  We were eager to get inside that dorm.  I was thinking we might actually see a naked boy or two.  I didn’t have a brother, so the prospect of seeing boy body parts was thrilling.  We dug through her brother Steven’s drawers, pulled out piles of guy’s clothing and dressed up like boys.  We then marched our male selves into the dorm.  I don’t remember much about it other than the place smelled like sweaty sneakers.  No naked guys, but it was still a big adventure.

The college campus was a wonderful playground.

I went to U of D and was an art major in the early 70’s.  It was a fun experimental time.  Junior year I gave a friend a bong for  her birthday. When her dad found it she told him it was a sculpture I had made in class.  Wild times and lots of laughs.

That same year  I got a job working at the Stone Balloon serving pitchers of beer.  My mother was horrified that I was “a bar maid”.  The Balloon was owned by a man named Bill Stevenson.  His then wife, Jill, was a beautiful blond who would come into the bar  looking somewhat bewildered.  She later married Joe Biden, and the rest is history.


Who out there remembers the Stone Balloon?  Bruce Springsteen played there as did Tiny Tim.   The other bar in town was the Deer Park.  That’s where the frat boys hung out. The Balloon was for “hippies” according to my ex-husband.  Guess I was a hippie.  I had a peace sign necklace and marched in a Viet Nam war protest ( but only because I had a crush on a guy who was marching…I now realize a lot of my choices in life were motivated by crushes.)

I dated that boy for about a year.  He went on to become gay.  I wonder if dating me drove that?   He was the drum major in Delaware’s marching band and a fellow art major.  We tie died tee shirts together and spent an illegal night in the art studio.  He was cute, funny, and a wonderful dancer.

Somehow I wandered off the growing up in a college town topic.  Oh well.  It’s my blog.  I get to do whatever the heck I want with it.  Life is good.

University of Delaware